We were both attending Grady Lee's Words and Voices concert at the building which once housed Austin Street Grill.

"I heard you consider yourself my enemy," I said.

"That's true," the man replied, angrily adding "How dare you" do what I had done to him.

Uh huh. I thought, I'm going to write a column and light him up. I will make this man regret every word he said.

Then I remembered a recent dream. I was angry at someone and was throwing rocks at that person's house. The person inside had closed the shutters and was locked away, safe from anything I had to say, hard of heart and firm of mind.